“Her heart was working so hard”
As Daniel grew into the joyful, dynamic kid he is today, Ellen and Jon felt a pull to help other children like him.
Ellen heard about an adoption program dedicated to kids with Down syndrome born in China, where they were often considered “unadoptable.” The Lindbloms hadn’t previously considered adoption, but the program, and Daniel, inspired them. “My heart just said, ‘Yes,’” says Ellen.
In 2017 — with the help of a note from Dr. Heller — they adopted Naomi, then age 4.
Just like Daniel, and like many children with Down syndrome, Naomi was born with a heart condition. She’d had open-heart surgery as a baby in China, but still needed careful monitoring. Back home in Connecticut, under the watchful eye of Dr. Heller, she thrived, blossoming into the family’s biggest extrovert and an irrepressible hugger.
Then the Lindbloms learned about Ayla. They watched a video from her foster parents, of Ayla throwing a ball and and giggling. They booked another set of plane tickets.
They knew Ayla had a heart condition, and of course, this wasn’t their first or even second time helping a child with that journey. But it wasn’t until they were in Ayla’s foster home in China, bending to meet her in person, that they realized just how dire her situation was. At 6 years old and only 28 pounds, she wasn’t just underweight. She was emaciated.
“Her heart was working so hard,” says Ellen. “All her energy, all of the food she ate, it was all going to her heart just trying to survive.” Back at the hotel room that evening, giving Ayla a bath for the first time, Ellen couldn’t stop crying. This child needed help, fast.